'No'means No, But Does 'Yes'mean Yes ?


Erotica
For the longest fourth dimension, womanhood were treated as men 's property in society. Women could n't decide whom to get married. And it was legally impossible for a husband to rape his wife. Because the char had no rightfulness to say 'No'to him.

Only recently laws have been changed to give char the full right to say 'No'to a guy, even if he is her husband.

Now, a woman 's 'No'finally means 'No'in USA and in most other countries. But whether a char can say 'Yes'to a guy for having sex is still an open issue even in USA.

Even many so-called liberal are now advocating the Swedish role model of anti-prostitution laws. This Swedish fashion model basically treats grown womanhood as minor youngster, who have no right to give way consent for having sex with a guy. Such a law treats women leniently, as if they are minors who do n't be intimate what they are doing. Instead, the law goes after the men. Such a law treats men as if they are sexual marauder taking vantage of unequal to women, who are incapable of deciding for themselves.

This treatment of charwoman as if they are incompetent children is actually a throwback to the old times, when women had no sound rights. Because that 's how women were described in the past tense in order to refuse them the right either to say 'Yes'or 'No'in their marriage, in their sex, and in their life-time.

Surprisingly, some feminist are now advocating the Swedish model of anti-prostitution laws. And I say surprisingly, because such laws are using the same ideas and supposal that feminists have been fighting against in the yesteryear.

I suppose, not all feminists are alike. Some porn-stars, such as Angela Edward D. White for example, shout themselves women's rightist. And there are feminist who are against the kind of porn Angela White River makes. So, feminists do n't all agree in their ideas and what to do.

But when feminists advocate Laws that deny competent adult women the right to say 'Yes'to a guy. Then this is almost like polite rightfield advocate supporting some signifier of yield back to slavery. It 's a betrayal of their primal approximation and their cause. Which makes me ask, whether these feminists are really feminists, or whether they are just claiming to be feminist to destruct feminism from inside ?

In their defense lawyers, anti-prostitution libber would say that even competent adult fair sex in the sex-trade are often forced and coerced to do their sex-work. These women are n't free to say 'No'to guy wire, and their 'Yes'does n't really intend 'Yes'in their situation. Which is true in the state of affairs they describe.

The alone problem with this argument is that coercion and forcing of any adult in anything is already against the law. And you can find plenty of average labor exploitation among migrator farm workers, illegal immigrants, and so on. There is nothing special about such affair going on in the sex-trade too.

If completely banning the occupation, where some workers are exploited, is a sane reply. Then this means that farm labor should be banned, janitorial work should be banned, and any other job should be banned, when actor are found to be exploited there. When you look at it this way, then what these women's rightist are saying is n't reasonable or credible at all.

A reasonable reply would be to have program and rules for monitoring possible exploitation, ending it whenever it 's found, and punishing those responsible. And this is exactly what governments do, when they want to end victimisation of actor in various occupations.

exterior of feminist movement, one telling lineament of this denial for women the right to say 'Yes'to a guy is the inconsistency in laws and the great unwashed 's attitudes.

Women actually have a right hand to birth sex for money, when they make smut. Perhaps woman ca n't take pornography in every jurisdiction. But erotica is useable everywhere. And governments are generally tolerating it. So, fair sex are basically saying 'Yes'to paying guys and making money off having sex with guy rope in porn.

But as soon as you take away the tv camera, and the woman just has sex for money in individual with a guy. Then the government and many people call this 'prostitution'and do their full to refuse women the right to say 'Yes'to a guy.

So, having sex for money is okay in one office but not okay in another. And the only difference is whether the womanhood 's sex with the guy is public or private. Which is another contradiction.

You would naturally require citizenry to have more than rightfield and freedoms in private than in public. But what we have now is the reverse. Women can says 'Yes'when they have sex for money to make populace porn. But women are treated as unqualified youngster, when they try to have sex for money in private.

The thing about treating grownup women as incompetent minors in this post is that it 's like a Dardanian Horse that in the future can be used to reverse charwoman 's rights and go back to the old way of treating women as minor children. Because if it 's alright to treat women as minors in having sex, then why not move the laws and attitudes a little more in the historical direction and deny women the right to do something else ?

Once you compromise on your rule and you do n't experience any, then there is no way to bed when and where to stop moving fair sex 's right wing in reverse.

Describing adult as incompetent nestling has been used historically to apologise Black person slaveholding and deny women their right as full moon citizens of the country.

Most of such attitudes have been overcome. But there is one big exception now. Anti-prostitution laws are based on the melodic theme that fully grown women are like tiddler children, and they should be treated as such in this kind of a situation.

And actually pol, who advocate such police force, often do speak about minors and nestling to free their jurisprudence. They just block to mention that they are playing a hook and switch kind of sales tactic to betray their laws. They talk about kid and fry, but they make their Laws for adult charwoman instead. So, there is some dirty and underhanded politics involved in this too.

governing, politicians, and nosey-parker abusing their power to take away people 's rights and freedoms has a long history in virtually every country. Anti-prostitution laws are a modern deterrent example of this. And historically, such police and position did n't go away on their own. Only widespread resistance and corruption of such laws and attitude is what has made them go away in the past.

Slavery did n't go away on its own. It ended only as a result of the Civil War that killed millions. And women did n't get their right hand as a resolution of men 's benevolence either. Their fight for their rights has been long and hard, even longsighted than that of the slaves. And this engagement is n't yet fully finished. Because anti-prostitution laws are still treating adult women as children.

I think ethical the great unwashed and citizenry of conscience should resist and subvert such natural law and attitude whenever they can. Because this is shogunate, and tyranny does n't go away on its own. We will have despotism as long as multitude accept it and choose to live with it .
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