'No'means No, But Does 'Yes'mean Yes ?
EroticaFor the tenacious time, charwoman were treated as men 's property in beau monde. Women could n't decide whom to marry. And it was legally insufferable for a hubby to spoil his wife. Because the woman had no right to say 'No'to him.
Only recently laws have been changed to grant cleaning lady the wide right wing to say 'No'to a guy, even if he is her husband.
Now, a charwoman 's 'No'finally means 'No'in USA and in virtually other countries. But whether a cleaning lady can say 'Yes'to a guy for having sex is still an undecided issue even in USA.
Even many so-called progressive are now advocating the Swedish model of anti-prostitution laws. This Swedish model basically treats adult women as nipper small fry, who have no right wing to commit consent for having sex with a guy. Such a law treats women leniently, as if they are minors who do n't know what they are doing. Instead, the law goes after the men. Such a law treats men as if they are sexual predators taking advantage of unqualified cleaning woman, who are incompetent of deciding for themselves.
This discussion of women as if they are fumbling children is actually a reversion to the old times, when women had no legal rightfield. Because that 's how cleaning woman were described in the past in order to deny them the right either to say 'Yes'or 'No'in their marriage, in their sex, and in their lives.
Surprisingly, some women's liberationist are now advocating the Swedish model of anti-prostitution laws. And I say surprisingly, because such laws are using the same ideas and presumptuousness that feminists have been fighting against in the past.
I suppose, not all women's liberationist are alike. Some porn-stars, such as Angela White for example, call themselves feminist. And there are women's liberationist who are against the sort of porn Angela White makes. So, women's rightist do n't all harmonize in their ideas and what to do.
But when libber advocate police force that deny competent adult cleaning lady the right to say 'Yes'to a guy. Then this is almost like civil rights advocates supporting some form of homecoming back to slavery. It 's a betrayal of their profound approximation and their cause. Which makes me ask, whether these feminists are really feminists, or whether they are just claiming to be women's rightist to ruin feminism from inside ?
In their defense, anti-prostitution feminist would say that even competent grownup women in the sex-trade are often forced and coerced to do their sex-work. These womanhood are n't give up to say 'No'to guy cable, and their 'Yes'does n't really have in mind 'Yes'in their spot. Which is lawful in the situation they describe.
The only problem with this argument is that compulsion and forcing of any adult in anything is already against the law. And you can detect passel of average Labour exploitation among migrant farm workers, illegal immigrants, and so on. There is nothing special about such things going on in the sex-trade too.
If completely banning the occupation, where some workers are exploited, is a reasonable response. Then this means that farm Labor should be banned, janitorial study should be banned, and any early occupation should be banned, when doer are found to be exploited there. When you look at it this way, then what these libber are saying is n't sensible or believable at all.
A sensible response would be to ingest programs and normal for monitoring possible exploitation, ending it whenever it 's found, and punishing those creditworthy. And this is exactly what governments do, when they want to end using of workers in various occupations.
Outside of feminist movement, one telling feature of this denial for charwoman the rightfulness to say 'Yes'to a guy is the inconsistency in laws and people 's attitudes.
Women actually have a right to have sex for money, when they make porn. Perhaps women ca n't lay down porn in every legal power. But erotica is available everywhere. And governments are generally tolerating it. So, women are basically saying 'Yes'to paying Guy and making money off having sex with Guy in porn.
But as soon as you take away the television camera, and the cleaning lady just has sex for money in individual with a guy. Then the governance and many people call this 'prostitution'and do their best to deny women the right to say 'Yes'to a guy.
So, having sex for money is okay in one spot but not O.K. in another. And the sole difference is whether the cleaning lady 's sex with the guy is public or private. Which is another contradiction.
You would naturally expect mass to throw more rights and freedom in common soldier than in public. But what we have now is the reverse. char can says 'Yes'when they have sex for money to make public porn. But fair sex are treated as unqualified minors, when they try to sustain sex for money in private.
The thing about treating grownup women as clumsy minors in this office is that it 's like a Dardanian Equus caballus that in the time to come can be used to lift women 's right hand and go back to the old way of treating char as underage children. Because if it 's fine to treat cleaning lady as minors in having sex, then why not move the Laws and attitudes a little more in the historical direction and deny cleaning lady the right to do something else ?
Once you compromise on your principles and you do n't give birth any, then there is no way to know when and where to contain moving fair sex 's right in reverse.
Describing grownup as fumbling tyke has been used historically to justify ignominious slavery and deny women their right field as full citizens of the country.
Most of such position have been overcome. But there is one big exception now. Anti-prostitution laws are based on the estimation that adult women are like modest children, and they should be treated as such in this variety of a situation.
And actually politicians, who advocate such police, often do utter about tiddler and tiddler to rationalize their laws. They just block to remark that they are playing a bait and swap kind of sales maneuver to sell their practice of law. They talk about kid and nipper, but they make their jurisprudence for fully grown women instead. So, there is some dirty and underhanded political relation involved in this too.
government activity, politicians, and busybodies abusing their power to postulate away people 's rights and exemption has a long history in virtually every country. Anti-prostitution laws are a modernistic model of this. And historically, such legal philosophy and position did n't go away on their own. Only widespread resistance and corruption of such law of nature and attitudes is what has made them go away in the past.
Slavery did n't go away on its own. It ended only as a resultant role of the Civil War that killed million. And cleaning lady did n't get their right field as a result of men 's benevolence either. Their conflict for their rights has been long and hard, even foresightful than that of the striver. And this fight is n't yet fully finished. Because anti-prostitution police are still treating adult adult female as children.
I think honourable mass and hoi polloi of scruples should fend and subvert such laws and attitude whenever they can. Because this is one-man rule, and Caesarism does n't go away on its own. We will have tyranny as long as people accept it and opt to live with it .