'No'means No, But Does 'Yes'think Yes ?


Erotica
For the prospicient clock time, charwoman were treated as men 's property in gild. fair sex could n't make up one's mind whom to marry. And it was legally inconceivable for a hubby to rape his married woman. Because the woman had no right field to say 'No'to him.

Only recently legal philosophy have been changed to give fair sex the wide-cut right to say 'No'to a guy, even if he is her husband.

Now, a woman 's 'No'finally means 'No'in USA and in well-nigh other countries. But whether a woman can say 'Yes'to a guy for having sex is still an undecided issue even in USA.

Even many supposed liberal are now advocating the Swedish poser of anti-prostitution practice of law. This Swedish model basically treats pornographic charwoman as minor children, who have no right to give consent for having sex with a guy. Such a law treats women leniently, as if they are small fry who do n't cognise what they are doing. Instead, the law goes after the men. Such a law treats men as if they are intimate vulture taking advantage of incompetent woman, who are incompetent of deciding for themselves.

This treatment of women as if they are incompetent tyke is actually a atavism to the old times, when fair sex had no sound right hand. Because that 's how women were described in the yesteryear in order to deny them the right either to say 'Yes'or 'No'in their wedlock, in their sex, and in their lives.

Surprisingly, some feminists are now advocating the Swedish model of anti-prostitution police force. And I say surprisingly, because such police are using the Sami idea and assumptions that feminists have been fighting against in the past.

I suppose, not all feminists are alike. Some porn-stars, such as Angela Edward D. White for object lesson, call themselves feminist. And there are libber who are against the kind of porn Angela White makes. So, feminist do n't all fit in in their ideas and what to do.

But when feminists advocate Torah that deny competent grownup women the right to say 'Yes'to a guy. Then this is almost like civic right advocates supporting some cast of return back to slavery. It 's a betrayal of their fundamental ideas and their campaign. Which makes me ask, whether these feminists are really feminists, or whether they are just claiming to be feminists to demolish feminism from inside ?

In their defensive structure, anti-prostitution feminist would say that even competent adult fair sex in the sex-trade are often forced and coerced to do their sex-work. These women are n't free to say 'No'to guy cable, and their 'Yes'does n't really mean 'Yes'in their situation. Which is true in the billet they describe.

The only problem with this argument is that coercion and forcing of any adult in anything is already against the law. And you can find batch of ordinary bicycle labor using among migratory farm proletarian, illegal immigrants, and so on. There is zip particular about such things going on in the sex-trade too.

If completely banning the occupation, where some doer are exploited, is a reasonable response. Then this means that farm labor should be banned, janitorial body of work should be banned, and any other occupation should be banned, when workers are found to be exploited there. When you look at it this way, then what these libber are saying is n't reasonable or credible at all.

A reasonable reaction would be to make broadcast and rules for monitoring possible exploitation, ending it whenever it 's found, and punishing those creditworthy. And this is exactly what governments do, when they want to end development of worker in various occupations.

Outside of feminism, one telling characteristic of this denial for womanhood the right to say 'Yes'to a guy is the mutual exclusiveness in law of nature and mass 's attitudes.

adult female actually have a right to have got sex for money, when they make porn. Perhaps adult female ca n't make porn in every jurisdiction. But smut is available everywhere. And administration are generally tolerating it. So, woman are basically saying 'Yes'to paying guy cable and making money off having sex with guy rope in porn.

But as soon as you take away the camera, and the woman just has sex for money in private with a guy. Then the political science and many multitude call this 'prostitution'and do their best to deny womanhood the right wing to say 'Yes'to a guy.

So, having sex for money is okay in one place but not sanction in another. And the only when dispute is whether the woman 's sex with the guy is populace or secret. Which is another contradiction.

You would naturally expect people to feature Sir Thomas More right hand and freedom in private than in world. But what we have now is the turnabout. adult female can says 'Yes'when they have sex for money to crap public porn. But women are treated as unskilled minors, when they try to feature sex for money in private.

The thing about treating adult women as incompetent minor league in this billet is that it 's like a Trojan horse that in the future can be used to turn women 's rights and go back to the old way of treating fair sex as minor children. Because if it 's o.k. to plow adult female as minors in having sex, then why not move the police force and attitudes a little more in the diachronic direction and deny char the rightfulness to do something else ?

Once you compromise on your principles and you do n't have any, then there is no way to jazz when and where to terminate moving womanhood 's rights in reverse.

Describing adult as incompetent children has been used historically to vindicate Black person slavery and deny charwoman their right hand as full citizens of the country.

Most of such attitudes have been overcome. But there is one big exception now. Anti-prostitution laws are based on the mind that adult cleaning lady are like minor kid, and they should be treated as such in this kind of a situation.

And actually political leader, who advocate such laws, often do spill about shaver and children to justify their laws. They just forget to cite that they are playing a bait and switch kind of sale tactic to sell their law. They talk about minors and tiddler, but they make their laws for full-grown women instead. So, there is some dirty and underhanded political relation involved in this too.

Governments, pol, and busybodies abusing their office to take away people 's rights and exemption has a hanker story in virtually every state. Anti-prostitution legal philosophy are a modern example of this. And historically, such laws and attitude did n't go away on their own. Only widespread resistance and subversion of such natural law and attitudes is what has made them go away in the past.

Slavery did n't go away on its own. It ended only as a solvent of the Civil War that killed jillion. And women did n't get their rights as a resultant role of men 's benevolence either. Their fight for their rights has been long and hard, even longer than that of the slave. And this fight is n't yet fully finished. Because anti-prostitution Laws are still treating adult charwoman as children.

I think ethical mass and people of conscience should resist and debase such laws and position whenever they can. Because this is Stalinism, and authoritarianism does n't go away on its own. We will have tyranny as long as citizenry accept it and choose to live with it .
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